July 13, 2008
What Lessons Can We Learn From Jezebel?
Like father (not necessarily) like daughter. Jezebel chose to follow in her evil father’s footsteps. We can choose otherwise. History provides a great example but a terrible excuse.
Ruling your country is one thing; ruling your husband is another. God offers a different model of leadership. Though we are equal in God’s eyes and co-laborers in the kingdom, in the home the husband is the head of the wife.
No one wants to work for a witch. When we have a legitimate leadership role, let’s do it with grace and compassion.
The only person who saw Ahab as weak was Jezebel. It may be our strong-willed nature – and not their weak-willed one – that makes them appear “less than.” Let’s pray for a gentler, more supportive spirit.
Janna Wickham said,
July 14, 2008 at 2:01 pm
Hi,
Sorry I missed last week, I missed all of you bad girls:) I think that the one thing I have been struggling to learn is that I do not “rule” my husband. I used to have a powerful position and had over two hundred people under me and I thought he was just one more. Very bad girl. I have learned through different seasons of my life that my husbad is the leader of our home. It actually feels good to finally surrendered to that.
I will be out of town next week too,
Love in Him,
Janna
Sharon Frederick said,
July 16, 2008 at 10:00 pm
I was out of town this past weekend and missed the bible study. I just read the chapter today (better late than never, right??), and unfortunately could relate to some of Jezebel’s traits. I, too, have struggled with being the submissive wife. I have come a long way from the beginning of my marriage 10 years ago, but still have not totally surrendered. I need to download Justin’s sermon about submission that he gave a couple of months ago and listen to it on a regular basis.
I will be out of town this weekend too but will continue to read about these bad girls.
Blessings,
Sharon